Thursday, March 26, 2009

Nine months for a Rooster!



Nine months for a rooster! This might be an insult to many of you but to Mdme Kiki, returning to Haiti with Lonia after nine loooong months, it was the ultimate compliment! It was like something out of an old black and white movie or stories my great grandma used to tell of her childhood and how they used to pay the doctor with produce from the garden. It was a very small but very heart felt gift of poultry to convey the very essence of thankfulness in their hearts that little Lonia was alive and would live to see many more birthdays. I must admit I was a little overwhelmed and I felt a little selfish receiving it. I mean, not sharing with Dr. Gates, Beverly, Anna Lynn, Joe and Charlotte Tebo, Charlie and Teresa Bowen and so many others who had played such a big part in everything coming together and being accomplished for Lonia, it just seemed wrong.

I want to tell you more about how special it was and why there was so much meaning behind it. It was given by her grandma, her dad's mom. I had met her on our trip to Cupois as we took Lonia to the homecoming party that had awaited her up in those distant mountains. She apologized for not having anything to give me then. She laughed and hugged and kissed Lonia and I and promised she would be sending something. Little did I know what the "something" would be. Bright and early, Saturday morning, Pierre's brothers brought the rooster along with an apology from their mother. You see, she had also been fattening a goat. The prize possession of this elderly woman in her two room dirt shack was being saved and treasured to give as a gift for me caring for Lonia and all that went with it. The day they were ready to bring the goat, they found he had eaten someone's garden. The owner of the garden had proudly taught people the lesson of keeping their goats out of his garden by cutting the head off of the goat and leaving it lay in the garden to be found by its owner. Needless to say, the woman was devastated by the random actions of the gardner. She was also embarrassed to be only able to send the rooster, which I humbly accepted and proudly ate the next day before something drastic had time to happen to my new prized possession! Nine months for a rooster? You bet, and I would do it all over again without blinking an eye. What a privilege to be in the service of our Lord and King! May this find you serving Him faithfully!
Dee

Thursday, March 19, 2009

Home Sweet Home! Haiti

Kids kids and more kids! Lonia and HLG women at Cupois

Action of Grace, church at
Carries


I personally thought March 7th, 2009, would never come! Of course it did however. Praise the Lord for that. Nine months was a long time to be gone from the country I love so dearly. The country that I have lived in for the past 16 years, day in and day out, Haiti, definitely my home. This is a good thing. It is where I function. It's where I am needed. It's where I am respected. It's where God allows me to use all that He has given me to serve Him. I don't mind telling you that for the last nine months I have truly felt like a fish out of water. I have met the task head on. I did what needed to be done. Lonia is alive and well and thriving. Josiah is almost 3months old. Ashley is about to finish the 4th grade. Kelsey is 4 going on 14 and talks a mile a minute. Wilckly is out of jail and busy about the Lord's work. Crash has survived Haiti without me and even speaks Creole. I Dee am Mdme Kiki and I am happy to be home in Haiti.
We left PAP at 4:30 in two vehicles. About thirty minutes out of town, the pick up broke down. We should have arrived home around 6pm. Instead we had to pull the pick up, stopping and starting a million times before finally arriving at 10 pm. We were all totally exhausted! Don't know what I would have done without the help of all those "superwomen" from HLG in Hannibal, Missouri. You all are my heroes. WELCOME TO HAITI!
Sunday morning was a very special service called Aksyon de Gras or Action of Grace. There were more than 8 churches represented that morning. Each came with a special singing group from their church with several songs to share for the occasion. It was a special get together to welcome us back to Haiti and to thank God for all of His actions of grace in returning us there. Many people were praying for us here and in the States. This was their magnificent way of saying thanks to the Lord and the many answers He gracefully provided for all of our prayers. It was evident to me through this special homecoming and gathering of the saints that the Lord is alive and well and with us in our ministry in Haiti. I saw, through teary eyes, people who have stood in total opposition to us and our work, now standing together before the Lord, praising Him under one roof. It was very powerful! Thank you for praying.
Taking Lonia home to the mountains of Cupois was a very special day also. The church choir prepared a few songs to thank us for all that was done to make sure this little girl stayed alive. It was a special time as her mom, dad, aunts, uncles, grandparents and godparents gathered around to see our miracle girl. She was her natural, sweet, captivating self as they gathered around to try to get their hands on her. In typical Lonia style she gave them all a quick kiss and a hug after completely showing off all of her English speaking skills, including singing for them and naming all of her body parts, and then she was ready to go with mom Kiki and eat. She is staying with us at Carries and her parents are close by with her new baby brother, Ezekiel. Please keep us in your prayers and Lonia's health as she adapts back to Haiti. Thank you each and every one for all you did to take care of Lonia, the girls and I while we were in the States. We can never thank you enough and we will never stop praying the Lord's continued blessings on each of you.

Mdme Kiki


Dee
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Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Lonia...our miracle girl!



LONIA - JULY 2008, SACRAMENTO, CALIFORNIA

Wow! Looking at this picture brings a flood of emotions that are indescribable. It seems like a year ago in March when we first met this little girl is so many moons ago. It has definitely been a roller coaster of a ride. The kind that has all the extras. The upside down, hanging by your fingernails type of ride. First you are up, then you are down. You're on the ride going round and round. You are laughing, crying and screaming at the same time. Somehow, it's all good. Then you step off the ride, plant your feet on solid ground, things slowly stop spinning. You take a look at the ride you've just been on and you say, "Now that's plain crazy! I can't believe I did that!" This is exactly how the year has been with Lonia. The spinning is slowly coming to an end. We are trying to plant our feet on the ground. We stand amazed as we glance back at the ride and say, "Wow, God! Are you serious? That was simply amazing! How awesome you are to have done all of that and somehow we fumbled through it and tried to let you use us instead of getting in your way. Thank you and we praise you for being such a wonderful and an awesome God.

Her parents never dreamed she would live to be one year old, especially when the they were told to leave her at the hospital to die because there was no other option. Here she is, alive and healthy. She has had 4 major surgeries in the last 7 months. She used to have a dull, sad and painful look in her eyes. It has been replaced by a brilliant sparkle, full of life and a huge smile with big, dancing, brown eyes that speak volumes. She is now a ball of fire instead of the listless almost lifeless little girl I brought on the plane from Haiti.

We are thrilled with her progress. We are with Dr. Gates and his wife now, in Sacramento. He is running an ultra sound and some tests this morning to make sure everything is on track before we return to Haiti. It has been a sweet reunion.
Dee

Sunday, January 18, 2009

It hasn't been a problem for our little tropical girl to adjust to this frigid cold. She lets you know, quickly, how unhappy she is to be stuck in that crazy car seat with her coat, that already swallows her up. It doesn't stop her and it's usually short lived. She is always ready to go when someone else is getting their coat on.

She is very active as a 16 month old should be. Her body continues to heal. We will be returning to California with her for one last check up from Dr. Gates before returning to Haiti in March. We are excited about that visit. We are very anxious for everyone to see how much she is changing and growing. Please pray for us as we make plans to return to Haiti also and all that this entails.

Lonia might not remember much about Haiti and what was her home but Mdme Kiki remembers. Yes I am a "little" homesick to say the least. Please pray for us as we prepare to return to Haiti and what my family recognizes as "normal". I'm sure God is smiling or maybe He even laughed out loud to Himself with this statement from me. I wouldn't have it any other way.
Dee



Thursday, January 8, 2009

What a Mighty God We Serve




WHAT A MIGHTY GOD WE SERVE!






























Keep praying for our girl Lonia. She is doing amazingly well for all that she has been through. She is walking everywhere. She knows no stranger. She is full of all things little girls should be full of but especially, personality. She is talking and saying all kinds of things. She eats everything in sight. She has been staying with Charlie and Teresa Bowen in Maryville, Missouri. This was a big help while we waited for Josiah's arrival. Thank you both so much for your commitment to the Lord and to Lonia.

Every time I take a few minutes to think of the journey we've been on I am overwhelmed and the tears start flowing relentlessly. Just thinking how amazing it is that this little girl is alive! What does God have in mind? What is His special plan for her? The whole thing is a blur in my mind. It seems I've been gone from Haiti so long. I'm not sure who I am or where I am but I am sure who God is and I am still sure that where He leads me, I will follow.

I don't know how people live without Him. I would lose my sanity, lose my grip easy if I wasn't so sure of His presence in my life. He is so in love with each of us, He can't take His eyes off of us. What an awesome God we serve! I am kind of getting that as I hold Josiah in my arms and I can't take my eyes off of Him. How awesome, how precious, how delicate and so much detail! Really God, are you sure you want me to take care of him? I don't want to mess him up and God I know with you, I can't.





Daddy and Josiah







Tuesday, December 23, 2008



"Baby Belly" is here!
("Baby Belly" is the name Kelsey has affectionately been using for the baby throughout the pregnancy!)
His name is Wilckly Josiah. He arrived at 9:49pm Dec. 20, weighing 7'7" and 20 in. long. Dee tried to coax him into joining the world a little earlier in the week, but Josiah had his own agenda!


Dee and the baby and the proud Daddy and the girls are all doing well ... admiring their new addition.


Please accept our sincere thanks for the host of prayers and well wishes for the health of Dee and the baby! It's great to be on this side of this long wait!
BTW, Lonia is doing beautifully, walking everywhere! I think she may even be getting used to the cold weather ... if anyone ever does!!
We'll post more pics and update with more details soon.



Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Lonia is home...

SORRY, BUT I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THIS PICTURE! THIS GIRL HAS SO MUCH SPIRIT AND SPUNK. IT AMAZES EVERYONE......THANKS FOR PRAYING AND PRAYING AND PRAYING!



Dear Friends,
Thank you for praying for Lonia continually. This little ball of fire is an encouragement to us all with her flashing eyes and dashing smile. Her surgery to reverse the colostomy was successful on Thursday and she was able to come home on Sunday.

She was in the same room with a little girl named Brenn who had the same problem as Lonia.
The difference with Brenn is that at two days old she was given her colostomy. Lonia didn't get her life saving colostomy until she was eleven months old. Brenn had her next surgery the same time we brought Lonia in July for her first one. They had this last one at the same time. It was great to meet her family. Brenn has an identical twin sister named Brooke. They are eight months old now and Lonia is fourteen months. It was neat to get to know their family and to swap experiences. Both girls are doing well.

I had never prayed for someone to get their system going in quite this fashion before. It was crazy waiting for both of them to pass something through their new "pipelines and openings"! Sure enough they did. Never thought anyone could get so excited over changing a dirty diaper but we were definitely excited. It is a new experience for both of them and amazing to not be changing those nasty, very potent, colostomy bags anymore. Now they both have very sore bottoms but it doesn't seem to phase them much. Lonia is trying to walk. She is everywhere. She hangs on to whatever she can get a hold of. Please continue to pray for healing of her little body and no infection. I hope many of you will get to see her before we return to Haiti. We will be heading back to Iowa on Nov. 1, Lord willing.

Sorry I couldn't inform you of all of this sooner. We brought Lonia home Sunday night but for the past couple weeks we have all been in limbo as the Gates are purchasing a new home and selling their old home, the one we all live in with them. It has been up and down. First it's going through and then it isn't with the situation everyone has been facing. We got the final on Monday. Mrs. Gates has been boxing things up for a couple weeks but we really poured it on Monday. Tuesday the movers came to load everything in the moving truck. I spent the day at the other house with the little ones, out of everyone's way. We slept here for the last night. This morning they will come get the rest of the stuff and we will be in the other house. It is exciting but I know it has been very stressful to them. They keep apologizing for moving while we are here. I told them they couldn't have chosen better people to move with. My kids and I are used to taking what comes our way and we are used to living out of suitcases. We are just thankful to have a place to stay with such wonderful people and that they didn't leave us behind. Please pray God will continue to bless them for all of their efforts with Lonia and with us. It is quite an undertaking to house a pregnant woman and three small children for an unknown period of time!!!

News from Haiti is that they are opening school and the children are coming. It usually takes them up to a month to come out in full swing. We will keep you updated. Chris is busy helping us put order into chaos and doing a fine job. She would love and email of encouragement from any of you.

She and Wilckly said they have really struggled with the transportation problem. Money has been sent to help get the big truck fixed and we praise the Lord for that. It has been great to receive food from Feed My Starving Children but the cost we've paid to rent a vehicle to go get 25 boxes has been astronomical. They can get around at Carries with the motorcycle and walking. However the opportunity has come up to purchase a pick up. The man asked $5,000.00 as his final price but wanted it all up front. Wilckly said forget it because that's impossible right now. The man came back and Wilckly offered to give him $1,000.00 each month and he said no. He came back and said he would take $2,000.00 up front and we can give him $1,000.00 a month for the next three months. Wilckly told him he would consider it. PLEASE I am asking each of you to consider how you might be able to help with this project at this time. Any of you who have been to Haiti definitely understand the URGENCY of having a vehicle!!! If there is any way you could help with this at all please send funds to Fred as soon as possible. It will definitely be a blessing to us and to the ministry and a wise use of funds. Thanks in advance. Please continue to pray for all of those picking up the pieces after the terrible flooding in Haiti. People continue to come from the mountain churches for help/ Thanks to many of you who sent funds so that we could help them as they come with food, clothes and even helping some of them cover their houses. Pray for Salonique and family as they continue to muddle through and clean up the mess. Pray that the Lord would keep their spirits high as they continue to fight the evil one.
May God bless you.
Dee
Commit your works to the Lord and your plans will be established
Proverbs 16:3